Dominance

I take my dominance very seriously. To be dominant requires a great amount of responsibility. It's not just all fun and games, you are responsible for your submissive, mind, body and heart. Trust is the most essential element to a D/s relationship. If you aren't someone worth trusting than you have no business playing with D/s. Also you cannot be selfish if you are dominant. It may seem that you are selfish sometimes because you demand so much from your sub and you demand that she serves and please you, but the truth is you are aware of her need to please you and you are giving her what she truly wants in her heart. Granted her need matches your need but that is the beauty of a D/s relationship. The ying to the yang, perfect synchronicity that creates an amazing synergy.